Acha jeevan sathi kaise chune . 7 tips to get a perfect spouse
Acha life partner har kisi ki tamanna hoti hai. Agar aapka jeevan sathi aapke sath kadam se kadam mila kar chalta hai to jindagi aasan ho jati hai. Lekin aisa manchaha spouse ( jeevansathi ) kaise dhude jo aapke liye perfect ho. Acha pati ya patni chunane ke liye aap in tips ko follow kare or ek best life partner paaye or uske sath sukhi or sampann married life jeeye.
Baat chahe business ki ho ya life ki agar aapka partner best or har mushkil me sath dene wala hai to aapko success milne me der nahi lagti or aapko khush rahne ke bahane nahi dhudne padte. Lekin aisa partner kahan or kis tarah milega jo apki soch par fit baithe
Is baat ka dhyan aksar log nahi dete. Ladka ho ya ladki dono yahi sochte hain ki shaadi ke baad dekhenge ki kya karna hai. Lekin aisa nahi hai paisa kisi ke bhi safalta or barbadi ka sabse bada kaaran hai. Isliye is baat ko shaadi se pahle samajhne or suljhane ki koshish kare. Agar aap ladki hain to aapke liye shadi se pahle ye janana jaruri hai ki aapka hone wala pati aapki ichhao ko pura kar sakta hai ki nahi. Iske kiye uske paas proper source hai ya nahi. Matlab uske aamdani ka jariya kya hai ya bhavishya me kya hoga.
Agar aap ladke hai to ye janane ki koshish kariye ki aapki hone wali wife ki ichchao ki limit kya hai, kitni kharchili hai. Iske baad aapke paas uski desire fulfil karne ki himmat hai ya nahi. Aapke paas kamayi ka jo source hai usase aap baaki ke kharcho ke alawa apni patni ke liye kuch nikal sakte hain ya nahi.
Khush rahne ke liye aapke paas paise hona jaruri hai. Agar aapke paas paisa nahi hai to aap dono me khusi jyada din tik nahi sakti. Isliye ladko ke mamle me ya to aap aisa life partner chune jo kam kharch kare ya fir aap abhi se apne earning badhane ke tarike dhudne shuru kar dijiye. Ladkiyo ke mamle me ya to aap kharch karna kam kar dijiye😊 ya apne hone wale jeevansathi ko jyada kamane ke liye motivate karna start kar dijiye ya fir apne liye aisa acha pati chune jo aapke liye chand tare tod kar bhi lane me saksham ho.
Waise jamana badal rha hai. Ek ache bhvishya ke liye pati-patni dono hi kamate hain. Agar aapne bhi yahi socha hai to fir aapko kisi tarah ki chinta karne ki jarurat nahi hai.
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Baat chahe business ki ho ya life ki agar aapka partner best or har mushkil me sath dene wala hai to aapko success milne me der nahi lagti or aapko khush rahne ke bahane nahi dhudne padte. Lekin aisa partner kahan or kis tarah milega jo apki soch par fit baithe
7 hints to get a best spouse.
Best spouse ke liye aapko kuch baato ka dhyan rakhna hai or apne aap se kuch samajhauta karna hai. Ayiye dekhe kaise ek acha pati ya patni select kare.
1. Apni pasand ko pahchaniye
Har ladka rajkumari or har ladki rajkumar jaisa life partner chahte hai. Lekin sabke sapne pure nahi hote. Agar aap bhi unme se hain to apni soch ko thoda sa badale or apni pasand ko real life se jode. Jisase aapko aage chal kar ye na lage ki aapki kismat me to aisa hi partner hai jo aapki pasand ka nahi hai. Kyoki aisi soch aapki marriage life me effect dalti hai.
Iske liye aap jise apna jeevan sathi banane ja rahe hain usme kya quality hai pahle use pahchanane ki koshish kare. Ab use apni pasand ke sath thoda sa adjust kare. Agar aapko lagta hai ki wo aapki pasand se match kar rha hai to aap use haan bol sakte hain. Aisa isliye kyoki har vyakti me kuch achayiya or kuch kamiya hoti hi hain or kisi choti moti kami ki wajah se agar aapne ise reject kar diya to ho sakta hai ki agle milne wale bande me itani bhi achayiya na ho jitani ki isme thi. Or ek samay aisa aa jaaye ki thak kar aise vyakti ke liye aapko haan kar deni pade jo aapki pasand se bilkul hat kar ho.
Kyoki baat aapke life ki hai isliye ek dukan se dusari dukan wala funda na apnaye. Ye soch kar kisi ko reject na kare ki agli baar aapki bhent perfect person se ho jayegi. Iske opposite agar aapka hone wala spouse aapki pasand se bilkul different hai to use jabardasti na apnaye. Aksar maa- baap ke dabav me aakar log aisa kar dete hain ya ye sochte hain ki ise reject karke acha rishta mile na mile. Lekin aise wakt me aapko ye sochna hai ki isase bekaar kya hoga ki jiske sath aapko pura jeevan bitana hai wo aapki soch or pasand se bikul alag hai or aapke or aapki life ke sath fit nahi baithta.
Pasand or napasand clear hone ke baad hi aage badhe.
Kyoki baat aapke life ki hai isliye ek dukan se dusari dukan wala funda na apnaye. Ye soch kar kisi ko reject na kare ki agli baar aapki bhent perfect person se ho jayegi. Iske opposite agar aapka hone wala spouse aapki pasand se bilkul different hai to use jabardasti na apnaye. Aksar maa- baap ke dabav me aakar log aisa kar dete hain ya ye sochte hain ki ise reject karke acha rishta mile na mile. Lekin aise wakt me aapko ye sochna hai ki isase bekaar kya hoga ki jiske sath aapko pura jeevan bitana hai wo aapki soch or pasand se bikul alag hai or aapke or aapki life ke sath fit nahi baithta.
Pasand or napasand clear hone ke baad hi aage badhe.
2. Chehra nahi dil dekhe
Hone wale spouse me dekhne wali pahli chij uska chehra hi hai😊. To fir koi use kaise ignore kare. Lekin yahan chehare se matlab hai ki aap jyada ache ke chakkar me kahin achchi chij hi na miss na kar de. Aksar har insan sochta hai ki use khud se sundar dikhne wala hi life partner mile. Kyoki usase aapki shaan badhti hai.
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Lekin jahan baat puri jindagi ki ho wahan agar aap kuch samay ka sukh dekh kar baki jindagi kasht jhelna chahte hain tab to thik hai ki aap shakl dekhe or akal na ladaye. Kahne ka matlab ye nahi ki har ache chehre ke pichhe ek ganda insan hota hai balki ye hai ki aap jis chehre me thodi si kami dekh kar use mna kar rahe hain ho sakta hai uske pichhe ek bahut hi sundar dil rakhne wala insan ho. Ho sakta hai yahi apke liye perfect ho or aapke ghar or jindagi ko khusiyo se bhar de.
Isliye face se thoda sa aage jakar sochiye or apni pasand ko ek smart pasand danayiye.
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Lekin jahan baat puri jindagi ki ho wahan agar aap kuch samay ka sukh dekh kar baki jindagi kasht jhelna chahte hain tab to thik hai ki aap shakl dekhe or akal na ladaye. Kahne ka matlab ye nahi ki har ache chehre ke pichhe ek ganda insan hota hai balki ye hai ki aap jis chehre me thodi si kami dekh kar use mna kar rahe hain ho sakta hai uske pichhe ek bahut hi sundar dil rakhne wala insan ho. Ho sakta hai yahi apke liye perfect ho or aapke ghar or jindagi ko khusiyo se bhar de.
Isliye face se thoda sa aage jakar sochiye or apni pasand ko ek smart pasand danayiye.
3. Khud ko unki najar se dekhiye
Jaise aap kisi ko apnane se pahle unki achayi or burayi dekhte hain bilkul waise hi wo bhi aapko or aapke andar ki good or bad habbit or nature ko jarur dekhenge. Iske liye aapko ready rahna hoga. Aapke andar kya kamiya hai ya kaun si baat unhe pasand nahi aa rahi ye jaanane ke liye aapko khud ko unki najar se dekhna hoga or ye kaam aapko samay rahte karna hoga. Kahin aisa na ho ki aapko wo pasand aa jaye. Aap life ki puri planing bhi shuru kar de or unki taraf se reject ho jaaye or ek acha saabit hone wala partner aapke sath safar shuru karne se pahle hi sath chhod de.
Aisa bahut bar hota hai ki aapke andar koi kami na hone par bhi aap reject kar diye jate hain or aapko iska kaaran samajh nahi aata. Iska kaaran aapki koi aadat ya pasand ho sakti hai jo aapke hone wale jeevansathi ko pasand nahi hoti.
Isliye samay rahte unhe appreciate karne ke sath koshish kare ki ye pta chal jaye ki aap me unhe kya nahi acha lagta ya kya nahi pasand hai. Aisa hone par aapko apni baat rakhne or naye rishte ko strong karne ka samay milega.
4. Hone wale life partner ka dusaro ke sath vyavhar dekhe
Ye janana bahut jaruri hai ki aapke hone wale life parnter ka vyavhar kaisa hai. Aap logo ka relation ek dusare ke vyavhar se hi acha bana rahega. Isliye agar aapko iski jankari shaadi se pahle ho jaye ki unka samajik najariya kya hai or unka behavior kaisa hai to aapke future ke liye acha hoga.
5. Life partner ki soch or swabhav ko shaadi se pahle janane ki koshish kare
Aapka life partner kis tarah sochta hai agar ye aapko shaadi se pahle pta chal jaay to ye ek bahut badhiya baat hai. Koi bhi insan kaisa sochta hai ye janana bahut asaan hai lekin jab wo aapke paas ho ya jisase aap aksar milate ho. Agar aap shaadi se pahle aapas me milte hain to is baat ko jyada se jyada notice kare.
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Apne hone wale sathi ka mijaj ya swabhav ke baare me janana important hai. Aksar logo ka nature match nahi hota or iski wajah se baat badhkar ladayi tak pahuch jaati hai. Lekin agar ek baar bandhan me bandh gaye to aap chah kar bhi kuch nahi kar paate hain. Isliye shaadi ke bandhan me bandhne se pahle iska dhyan rakhiye. Agar aap garam mijaj ya gussail swabhav ke hain to aapko shaant nature wale life partner ki jarurat hai. Kyoki ek baar 2 shaant ya ek shaant or ek garam nature ke 2 log pura jeevan assani se kaat sakte hai lekin garam swabhav ke do vyakti aisa nahi kar sakte.
Iske alawa ye dekhe ki swabhav me shakkipan or kaamchori na ho. Ye aapke jeevan me khusiyo ko tabaah karne me sabse bada kaam karte hain isliye ise janane ki koshish kare.
6. Hone wale life partner se apna past kabhi na chhupaye
Aapka past kya tha isake bare me aapke sathi ko pta hona chahiye. College me jaate jaate aksar ladke or ladki love affairs me pad jaate hain. Lekin bahut kam hi aise love affairs success hokar shaadi ke bandhan me bandhate hain. Jinake affair beech me hi break up ho jaate hain unki ye history aage chal kar unki marraige life me kabhi kabhi bahut badi problem create kar dete hain.Isliye agar aapka koi aisa past rha hai to ise chhupaye nahi balki ise apne hone wale sathi ke sath share jarur kare.
Lekin rukiye agar aapka purana relation itna khaas nahi tha or saalo se aapka apne purane boyfriend ya girlfriend se koi connection nahi rah gya hai to ise share karne ki jarurat nahi hai. Lekin agar aisa kuch hai ki aapka relation had se aage ja chuka tha ya abhi hai to sabse pahle us relation ko khatam kariye jise aap aage nibha nahi sakte. Iske baad apne hone wale pati ya patni ko iske baare me btane ke liye kisi ache time or mood ka intajar kariye.
Aisa karne ke liye pahle aapko jald se jald unka vishwas jeetna hoga or ye kaam aapko shaadi se pahle karna hoga. Or ek nishchit time dekhkar aap unhe sab kuch bta dijiye. Isase aapke mind me kisi tarah ka koi bojh nahi rah jayega or aapke rishte me transparancy aayegi. Ye sab batane ke baad kya hoga ye aapki kismat par to nibhar karega hi, sath hi is baat par depend karega ki aapne unke man me ab tak kitna vishwas bnaya hai. Isliye pahle unke man me apne liye jyada se jyada vishwas bnaye.
Isase aapko ek fayda ye bhi ho sakta hai ki agar unke saath bhi same case hua or aapse btane me dar rahe ho to aisi koi baat aap dono ke beech clear ho jayegi.
7. Kharche ko hone wale pati ya patni se jod kar dekhe
Is baat ka dhyan aksar log nahi dete. Ladka ho ya ladki dono yahi sochte hain ki shaadi ke baad dekhenge ki kya karna hai. Lekin aisa nahi hai paisa kisi ke bhi safalta or barbadi ka sabse bada kaaran hai. Isliye is baat ko shaadi se pahle samajhne or suljhane ki koshish kare. Agar aap ladki hain to aapke liye shadi se pahle ye janana jaruri hai ki aapka hone wala pati aapki ichhao ko pura kar sakta hai ki nahi. Iske kiye uske paas proper source hai ya nahi. Matlab uske aamdani ka jariya kya hai ya bhavishya me kya hoga.
Agar aap ladke hai to ye janane ki koshish kariye ki aapki hone wali wife ki ichchao ki limit kya hai, kitni kharchili hai. Iske baad aapke paas uski desire fulfil karne ki himmat hai ya nahi. Aapke paas kamayi ka jo source hai usase aap baaki ke kharcho ke alawa apni patni ke liye kuch nikal sakte hain ya nahi.
Khush rahne ke liye aapke paas paise hona jaruri hai. Agar aapke paas paisa nahi hai to aap dono me khusi jyada din tik nahi sakti. Isliye ladko ke mamle me ya to aap aisa life partner chune jo kam kharch kare ya fir aap abhi se apne earning badhane ke tarike dhudne shuru kar dijiye. Ladkiyo ke mamle me ya to aap kharch karna kam kar dijiye😊 ya apne hone wale jeevansathi ko jyada kamane ke liye motivate karna start kar dijiye ya fir apne liye aisa acha pati chune jo aapke liye chand tare tod kar bhi lane me saksham ho.
Waise jamana badal rha hai. Ek ache bhvishya ke liye pati-patni dono hi kamate hain. Agar aapne bhi yahi socha hai to fir aapko kisi tarah ki chinta karne ki jarurat nahi hai.
Last word
Iske alawa bhi kayi aisi baate hain jise aam log ek acha jeevansathi paane ke liye amooman shadi se pahle pta karte hai. Jaise
- Ladke ya ladki ka family background kaisa hai
- Ladki ke matter me wo joint family me rah sakti hai ya nahi.
- Ek achi bahu banane ki quality hai ya nahi
- Ek achi ptni banne ki quality hai ya nahi
- Ladke ke matter me wo galat chije khata ya pita na ho or uski financial condition achi ho jisase ladki ko future me kisi tarah ki problem na ho
- Kisi tarah ki sharirik ya mansik bimari na ho
- Ladke or ladki ki height perfect matching ho
- Dono ek dusare ke future or career ko lekar agree ho.
Har ladka ya ladki yahi chahte hain ki uski life me aane wala insan ek acha or pyara insan ho. Lekin ye itna easy nahi hai iske liye apko thodi si mehnat karni padegi. Aap in tips ko follow kare or jane ki aapka would be husband ya wife aapke liye sahi hai ya nahi. Agar aapke paas isase jude kuch or tips hain ya kuch puchhna chahte hain to aap comment kar sakte hai
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